She was standing on a wobbly kitchen chair changing a lightbulb when her son walked in. "I've been doing this for 40 years, I don't need you hovering," she told him. Two days later she fell, doing the exact same thing. Sprained wrist. She still said it was nothing. That is one post from r/AgingParents. The replies underneath run for hundreds of comments, most of them from adult children describing the same scene with different details. The chair, the rug that isn't there, the